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not a good idea. He needs to establish his own identity and his own life, and so do you. It's like if you try to help a baby chick break out of an egg, you will damage him. Or like, if you touch a butterfly's wings just after he's hatched out of the cocoon, you'll damage him.
If you get your adult son too close to everything you do, then, he'll be crippled if anything happned to you suddenly . He won't be able to stand on his own two feet.

13 years ago. Rating: 4
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there's an old expression---''A son is a son till he gets him a wife. But a daughter is a daughter all of her life ''

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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stantheman: My kids are my kids. I don't tell them the secrets that I would tell a friend. I doubt that you do either. Think about it. There's stuff they don't want to know!

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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My daughter is my best friend,especially now that she is an adult herself.She helps me,i help her.We thank god,we have each other.

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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Yes, but his ugly wife put a stop to it. She was jealous. Wait till yours gets married.

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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Eggplant, I'm sorry that happened to you. My daughter-in-law was jealous of me and I was not jealous of her. I never see her anymore. My son and grandchild are fairly close but they're across the U.S. I wanted to write more but I deleted. You know? 

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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