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Just an update: court is over & I won't be divorced until the judge makes a decision regarding our property (could be 6 more mos) I'll let you know

I was on the stand for 4 hours! Hubby was on the stand for 20 min. (but he made a total a$$ out of himself!!!)..long day- I've been up for 30 hrs. Thanks for your kind words, thoughts and prayers! Lets hope the judge follows the law- don't know if I can deal with an appeal!!

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+10 Views: 1544 Answers: 9 Posted: 11 years ago

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Nothing to do now, except to try to put it out of your mind, for the time being. Get some rest and take care of yourself doo.

11 years ago. Rating: 14
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Thanks Ducky! (did you see the marijuana Q?? Officer Grip responded :) )

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I did. I'm glad that Officer Grip was observant of "trouble" as usual. :)

commented 11 years ago

That's GeT a Grip's job!!!

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I'll cross my fingers when you go back to court, can't keep it up for 6 months, all will be well!

11 years ago. Rating: 13
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Thanks RO...someday I'll be divorce...though not romantic I now fully believe in pre-nup agreements!

commented 11 years ago

They do help in some relationships I suppose.

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11 years ago. Rating: 13
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Thanks Fishy! Despite not working the pain and health issues I am much happier now and you are right FREEDOM is the BEST!!! Thx for all of the love and support!

commented 11 years ago

Hugs from me too...six months will fly by..I know that isn`t the answer you need/want doo..but it will be great when you get there..and I`m sure you will! xxx

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Take one day at a time and with faith it will all work out for you.

11 years ago. Rating: 13
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Thanks Ann!

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Dam! Slow process.

11 years ago. Rating: 12
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OY....We've been separated since March '11..almost 2 yrs. (Husband is a jerk thus the prolonged amt. of time)

commented 11 years ago

Hang in there Doo.6 mths isn't that long & you will be rid of him for keeps.:)

commented 11 years ago

Just as a footnote:- The only legal grounds for a divorce in this country is 12 mths separation.
Then the divorce is automatic as soon as one of the parties applies for it.The property settlement is sorted out after the divorce.

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Wow....

commented 11 years ago

Uncontested it SHOULD be 1 yr here too...it's been almost 2 years already...I can't work so that makes the finances nerve racking (however I need to apply to disability (which turned me down) again..Haven't gotten a penny from him yet. I saved a lot of $ while I was working which has saved my a$$

commented 11 years ago

Why is he being such a prick?

commented 11 years ago

Oh Julie if you only knew the whole story..he's just a very selfish mean man

commented 11 years ago

How many years did it take to come to this conclusion? You should have joined akaqa a long, long time ago......

commented 11 years ago

Julie- I should have I'd be much saner now (maybe, that's pretty debatable LOL). It didn't take long but I was pretty darn sick and in a lot of pain ( Did I mention he asked for the divorce when I was in the hospital- he's a real gem <sarcasm>)

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I am so sorry. Bet you hear that a lot... Do you have life insurance on him? Give ME his address....... lol

commented 11 years ago

We've had several natural disasters since we separated and I always hoped for that "Mrs._____ we are sorry to inform you but Mr.____ was a casualty of that storm" :)....guess God has a reason for all of this. I know I enjoy laughter and friends/family more than I ever did!!!

commented 11 years ago

Won't you be happy win it's Ms. instead of Mrs.?

commented 11 years ago

You bet...I introduce myself by my maiden name now :)

commented 11 years ago

I stole my husbands name but have had it for over 2/3 of my life now. It's mine....

commented 11 years ago

I don't want anything of his!!! Not even his name! (Just my fair share of our joint "property"

commented 11 years ago

He must have been (and still is) a real horses' patooty.....

commented 11 years ago

That is an insult to horses patootys! I call him the evil one- plain, simple, explains him to a T !!!

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I'll breath easier when YOU can.......

11 years ago. Rating: 11
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I'm thinkin'....R O A D T R I P !!!!!!!!!!

11 years ago. Rating: 11
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......AFTER YOUR SLEEPYTIME !
All things are transitory...but you know this...so this too shall pass....peace.

commented 11 years ago

Love ya Lindi!!!! Thx! Slept 12 hrs (nice!)

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Good luck doolittle, keep busy as much as you can, helps time pass. Been through it in past.

11 years ago. Rating: 8
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thanks Dolly!

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I'm sad to hear your ordeal is stretching out, and you'll definitely be on the prayer list for a speedy and fair dissolution.
This is something you've been waiting for for several months; wish it could have been over for Christmas.
Know you have a support group in place right here and now. (((( hugs ))))

11 years ago. Rating: 5
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Thanks Bob!

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